Combination with FIA?

Hi,
I have completed my FIA successfully, now i want a sincere advice. Kindly help me out in taking decision. I’ve done BCS(hons) in Computer Science ten years ago, then i got married and in 2013 i have started FIA with scope of ACCA.
Now i have second baby who is few months ago, done FIA, and really dont want to give up. All i know if i want to then i can do it but for that i have to fully devoted to studies n let this precious time of my babies n family pass without my full attention. ACCA is a long path, which required a commitment, i wish i started my career into this when i was in teens, but now at this stage of my life i think this would be highly unfair with my relations that in thrust of my happiness i ruin their happiness which wholly n soley depends on my fully presence.
I want to sharpen my hands in Accounting but by doing short certifications. What is the best combination witth FIA, if i do not pursue ACCA qualification then which certification makes me strong in accounting field with FIA.

Kindly discuss n help me out in taking decision. I have very short of time in which i have to finalize n join one path, either start F4 preparation or go other path.